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9 Signs The Man You’re With, Should Be Your Husband

1. He only expects you to be you.
To the man you should marry, it doesn’t matter if you are not funny, are not particularly quiet and are not in the least bit tidy. He will always up-build you and show that he appreciates and cherish you, even about the things about yourself that you don’t like.

When he is with his friends, relatives and work colleagues he does nothing but boast about you and you would do the same when around those closest to you, but they already know because it is written on your face.
Your husband-to-be should be the man that knows all there is to know about you, whether its bad or good, and who chooses to love you because of it all because it is what makes you – you.

2. He hears and listens to everything you tell him.

The man in your life is perfect husband material if he is often able to sense what you need without you explicitly explaining it to him all the time.

Even when you struggle to explain your feelings or emotions coherently, he will know what you mean.


3. You are lovers more than fighters.
Arguments and fights are always a possibility and even when you try so hard to avoid them, they inevitably happen. However, you know you have that special someone when it feels achingly sore in your heart when you do fight and argue because you don’t want to hurt him. You both find it too hard to angry at each other and will always look for a compromise that means you can be happy again.

4. His idea of romance perfectly mirrors and meshes with your own.

It will often feel like you are in a fairytale with all the love and magic that seems to be intertwined into your relationship. Whether you see romance as cuddling on the sofa in front of a movie, camping trips or candlelit meals, he feels exactly the same way and will always go above and beyond to make those romantic moments happen.

You know he’s the man you should spend the rest of your life with if he is not afraid to show you an express to you how he really feels deep own and trusts you enough to connect with you on the most intimate and deepest levels possible.

5. You want him to be a part of everything in your life, and vice versa.

When you imagine the future, he is in it and you do not feel scared thinking about being in a relationship with him for the rest of your life. In fact, being with him is when you feel most at ease.

He is always the first person you want to tell when you have good news to share or have a funny anecdote you want to tell someone. When that romantic and soppy song comes on your playlist or the radio, you immediately think about him.

Regardless of whether it’s what he’s doing on his day off from work or what he is eating for dinner, you are interested and want to know about it. You know the man in your life is the one if you find yourself wanting to do things because of him, because you want to feel even more closely connected to him.

6. You are powerfully attracted to each other on all levels.

You are attracted to each other on all levels – mentally, emotionally and of course, physically. The electricity that you both feel around each other is so potent and all-encompassing that nothing else seems to matter.

You know he’s the right man to settle down with if doing what would normally seen as mundane and boring tasks, such as running errands and picking up some groceries seem more important when you do them with or for him. Whether you are at the dentist or in the bedroom you feel the strength and pull of that shared attraction and find it hard to keep away from each other.

7. On the bad days, you’d still rather be with him than be alone.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had the worst day of your life in a long time, even when you don’t want to see, speak or spend time with anyone else; you want to be with him, because everything feels better when you are with him, compared to how it feels when you are on your own.

You know he should be your husband if he allows you the time to air your thoughts, feelings, worries, gripes and moans without interruption and does not try to disregard them. His passion and confidence in the relationship has a powerful influence on you and increases the excitement you feel from being in a relationship with him. You simply don’t want to spend time apart from him.

8. He finds happiness in your happiness, and vice versa.

You know you have the right man to spend the rest of your days and nights because he always wants and tries to do what is best for you, regardless of what it costs him.
The man you want to be your husband is the one that gives of his time and everything else freely an unselfishly and who relishes in sharing your personal interests and making them his own, because they are yours.

He will always make time for you, no matter how busy his working life gets, making sure you know you are still the most important person in his life.

9. He doesn’t expect you to be anyone, but yourself around him.

As we all have our fair share of good and bad days, if your man is the kind of guy who understands this and accepts you for who and what you are, regardless of how you are feeling, he is definitely husband material.
Anyone that truly loves you for who you are would never expect you to pretend that you are in a good or happy mood when you are not. You especially know you are on to a winner, when your guy is happy to laze around with you on the days when you just want to dress in baggy, comfortable clothes and mong out on the sofa or in bed.

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